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Book 3: Bitches on a Budget

Posted on 9 Jan 2010 In: Reading
Bitches on a Budget by Rosalyn Hoffman
Formatting edited and reposted
I’m in the lovely Kendall Square Marriott in Cambridge, MA. My flight home was cancelled; I have an incredibly early wake up time in the morning to make my rescheduled flight. I finished another book, so thought I would take a few minutes as blog my take on my latest read.
With the provocative title Bitches on a Budget, Rosalyn Hoffman and Karen Conner, who co-wrote a portion of the book, take sassy ladies all over on a journey to determine how to maintain a sense of style in this insane economy. I was fooled. I thought this book was going to be about how to get out of debt. No. Thankfully, this book assumes that all its reading divas already know what they need to do financially to stay afloat in these tumultuous times. We just want a way to do it in style, of course. And this book comes through there.
Chock full of those things on which to splurge, and others on which to save, Bitches on a Budgetprovides saucy oversight on how to live decadently on a budget. Get the T’s at Target. Are all those expensive skin care items really worth it? I adore my Dior skin care, but now I’m thinking, how badly do I really need it, if Boots will do just as well? How does one travel in style for less these days? And did you know Whisky (the Scottish spelling) is the new Cosmo?
My new virtual friends in the Bitches world tell us how to have it all without spending it all.
Yes, the title is provocative. I had a great conversation with one of the flight attendants on my way up to Boston about the book. The title will certainly spark curiosity. I’d love to see my friend Kate at Fusion of Style (http://fusionofstyle.blogspot.com/) elaborate on the fashion buying tips. You won’t learn any new groundbreaking financial management tips here, but that is kind of the point. Really, we all know what we need to do. This book makes it FUN. But you’ll get some website gems, some excellent (sounding) recipes, and a dose of sass not found any other book I’ve read about budgeting.
Highly recommend!
Next up? Al Gore’s The Assault on Reason. I started it tonight. Thought I might finish it on the flight home tomorrow, but since the flight is so obscenely early (yet I’m grateful to be getting home), I may sleep instead.

Book 2: River’s End

Posted on 6 Jan 2010 In: Reading

Having last week off let me get a jump start on the books I’m reading. This time, as mentioned in the previous post, I chose a Mystery/Romance novel by Nora Roberts, River’s End.


I picked this one for a few reasons. Primarily, I wanted something that I could just enjoy to finish off vacation, and not really have to think too much about. Second, under the name JD Robb, Nora Roberts writes a crime series I like. I’ve read a few other Nora Roberts books, and they’ve entertained me. And I’m intrigued by the whole Romance genre. Romance is currently the largest and best-selling fiction drama in North America. I think it is because most people want that happy ending, and you know in a Romance that the heroine and hero will find each other.

But I’m also skeptical about the Romance genre. I’ve read a few in the past. I think that because my own love life has never resembled a romance novel, I have a hard time buying into the all-consuming, devouring, fiery passion. But I like a good mystery. Spice it up with a little lovin’ and it could be quite entertaining.

With this novel, I think what you see is what you get. When Olivia was four, her mother was murdered. She stumbled upon the scene, and saw her own father holding the scissors that had been used to stab her. Her grandparents move her to Washington State to raise her away from the press about the sensational slaying. Years later, the son of the police officer who investigated the case tracks down Olivia to interview her about the murder for a book he is writing. Of course, then, mystery and romance, with the obligatory roadblocks, ensue.

The skeptic in me still isn’t sure about this “I fell in love with you when I was twelve” bit, and I guessed the twist to the story rather early on. Still, I had fun reading to see how things would work out, and if my suspicions about the twist were true.

If you’re looking for a quick, fun read with a decent mystery story and a little romance to go along, this book would probably keep you entertained.

Now, I’ve started Bitches on a Budget, but I can’t decide if that should count for Book 3 or not. I may also make it through an entire audiobook this week, so I can post on that.

Contenders for the book after “Bitches” are Warrior Queen, a novel about Celtic Queen Boudica; Fragile Eternity, the third book in Melissa Marr’s Wicked Lovely Faery series, and Al Gore’s The Assault on Reason. All three will eventually be read, I just need to pick one for the next selection.

The Unlikely Disciple

Posted on 3 Jan 2010 In: Reading

Book 1: The Unlikely Disciple: A Sinner’s Semester at America’s Holiest University

Kevin Roose

http://www.amazon.com/Unlikely-Disciple-Semester-Americas-University/dp/044617842X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1262401916&sr=8-1

Like many college students, Kevin Roose wanted to experience a semester in a different culture. Instead of choosing Europe, though, Roose left Brown University for a semester at Jerry Falwell’s Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia.

Roose’s parents are Quakers, but Kevin himself grew up largely non-religious. A friend gave him a crash course in evangelical Christianity before he started classes with advice like “Cursing will give you away immediately. Best say you’re a new Christian.” Roose knew he would be writing about his experiences at Liberty, so he chose not to disclose his full history. He wanted to learn about the college, its faculty, and students as they truly are.

Brown University is a secular, liberal university. Roose’s adjustment to Liberty included a strict dress code, no cursing, no dancing, no R-Rated movies, among other things. Some of the biggest adjustments for Roose were academic- like the school’s belief in Young Earth Creationism. That is, that the earth is about 6000 years old and evolution is a complete farce. He was also learning about the doctrine of Biblical infallibility- that Bible is literally true- the earth was created in six twenty-four hour days, and a bush really did catch on fire and talk to Moses.

The thing that struck me the most about Roose’s experience is that while he went into this with a preconceived idea of what the people he encountered would be like, he was also open to experiencing who they truly are. Roose found that while he did not share the same fundamental beliefs with his peers, that in general, they were more alike than different. To me, that was what was most shocking and meaningful to Roose.

I don’t want to reveal too much more about Roose’s experiences here, but I do have some other color to add to reading his memoir. Liberty is not the most conservative school, with respect to rules and regulations, as some of the other US conservative colleges and universities, which Roose cites in his book. I’ve had personal experience with the elementary schools associated with two of the other institutions Roose mentions.

At the time of publication of the book (March, 2009), some of the prohibitions listed at these institutions included no “secular” music and even more strict dress codes (women are allowed to wear pants only between their dormitories or in their dorm courtyards- not to any classes or in public) and there is to be no physical contact between couples- no hand holding, and not even eye contact that is deemed “too intense.” Now, the elementary schools I attended didn’t have all these same prohibitions, or maybe not to the same degree. I was required to wear a dress every day. I was the rebel who listened to rock and country music, although it was specifically prohibited by the school. Prayer and daily Bible lessons were core parts of the curriculum. I remember the rote memorization of the Baptist Catechism (Who made you? God made me. What else did God make? God made me and all things…). There was a test on it every Monday. When Roose recalls the challenge he had in learning the books of the New Testament, I was able to recall, after all these years, the song I had to learn in maybe third or fourth grade that listed all twenty-seven books in order. I’m still able to recite the song if I think about it a bit, and it turned out someone taught it to Roose as a study aid. I will say I’ve not had much use for that particular ditty in the last several years, but good to know that rote memorization has longevity in some cases.

I switched to public schools in grade six. I think I must have experienced, to some degree, a culture shock similar to Roose, although in the reverse. I was being exposed to so much more diversity, to more critical thinking. I didn’t realize at the time how much my world was opening up by being in this new environment. I wish it had happened sooner. Until then, I saw things as very black or white. Something was either OK or it was a SIN. And the SIN list was much longer than the OK list. As I was exposed to more, and as I got older, I realized how much grey there is in the world- and how there are very few absolutes; that “Always” and “Never” should rarely be used. I liked that I could identify with Roose on his journey.

Ironically, as Roose lived in the Liberty community for that semester, and his world view was somewhat narrowed, he still grew and learned about himself. He analyzed the religion he was being exposed to and determined for himself whether or not it was a good fit. He learned that even if he doesn’t necessarily believe that prayer works, the idea of someone supporting you through prayer is somehow comforting.

All in all, I thought Roose was very fair to his Liberty classmates. He might disagree with some of their philosophies, but he found the people to be largely good people. In fact, I get the impression from the book that he still keeps in touch with a number of them today.

If you like memoirs, if you’re intrigued by different religions, if you’ve ever watched a Mega-Church preacher on a Sunday morning and wonder what would drive a person to attend, then I think this book is worth a whirl.

Book 2 is one my Nora Roberts- complete fun, and the closest I’ve gotten yet to a true “romance novel.”

Here we go….

Posted on 1 Jan 2010 In: Reading

I’m going to try to read 52 books in 52 weeks. Why? I realized how much time I’m spending watching meaningless television, and I’ve been on the computer way too much lately.

I’m not in the book business, and I’m not a Lit major. I read for me, for my entertainment and edification. Don’t be surprised if you see my thoughts on chick lit here, as well as non-fiction or heavier fiction. I’m just going to read whatever is interesting to me.
I’ll post my thoughts on what I’ve read each Sunday. I listen to audiobooks during my commute. If I can complete one in a week, I’ll include it as well.
And while I have quite a backlog of books to go through, I’m always open for suggestions.
Happy Reading.
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